Memorials

William E. Ricco

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William Edward Ricco
December 4, 1931 – January 7, 2026

William Edward "Bill" Ricco, 94, of Simsbury, CT passed away peacefully on January 7, 2026. He was born on December 4, 1931 in Brooklyn, New York to William S. and Victoria Ricco, and was the beloved husband of Grace Caridi Ricco. He was a cherished husband, father, grandfather, uncle, cousin and proud veteran. He was raised in his grandparent's home by his devoted mother, Victoria, and a large extended family.

Bill attended Brooklyn Technical High School. While still in high school, he joined a group of professional musicians where he sang and played piano. Bill played professionally until 1975 and his love of music sustained him for the next 50 years. He passed that love of music on to his children and grandchildren.

Bill proudly served his country in the United States Army during the Korean War from 1952-1954. He served both as a company cook, running the camp mess hall, and as an infantryman, rising to the rank of sergeant. Bill loved telling stories of trading with local villagers to secure the best cuts of meat for his fellow soldiers - efforts that earned his mess hall such an excellent reputation that high-ranking officers often made special trips to dine there. He remained deeply proud of his military service throughout his life and was often seen during retirement wearing his cherished Korean War Veteran cap.

Harold Pockriss 1930-2026

Jomtien Beach
Thailand
Wednesday
February 4, 2026
 
Dear Adam,
 
I first met Mr. Pockriss sixty years ago when I was a student-teacher at Haaren High School in Manhattan.  Mr. Pockriss was my mentor.  Soon thereafter I was appointed as an English Teacher there, so Mr. Pockriss and I were now colleagues.
 
Those were the days before computers and mobile phones and even Xerox machines.  Consequently there always a flurry of paper announcements and requests and instructions to the staff.  I learned something from Mr. Pockriss that I use to this very day.  He said,  "I handle the paper immediately.  Otherwise I'll loose it."
 
Sometimes we would walk together in the busy hallways of the all-boys high school.  Hal would point to one of the kids and say, "You see that boy?  I taught him everything he doesn't know."

Oscar White Muscarella 1931-2022

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Bangkok Friday, December 2.

I am heartbroken. Oscar was my teacher at CCNY in 1960. History 1. When he spoke of Greek governance he used the All State slogan, "You're in good hands." But he loved the Phrygians. Prof Muscarella was so kind.  He gave me an A.

Oscar and I have been in contact for several years. I visited his office at The Met and his home in Manhattan. We shared memories of Van, Turkey where he had a dig. This year I visited Iran and now I regret we'll never have the chance to discuss the ancient civilizations there.

Oscar Bey was a loyal friend. He followed all my travels and my website. I am so sad. I will miss my fellow New Yorker and my outspoken and fearless friend.

My condolences to the Muscarella Family.

Jan Polatschek

Phanna Dureyavijit (1946 - 2012)

Nang Rong

Buriram

Thailand

Sunday

December 23, 2012 

My Dear Friends, 

I am sad to report that my friend Phanna Dureyavijit passed away on Thursday, December 20 at her son Kiew’s home in the Isan province of Buriram.  For the past few years, Phanna suffered from the painful and debilitating effects of diabetes.  Kiew told me his mother passed away peacefully in her sleep.  Phanna was 66.   She leaves behind her three sons, her mother, six sisters, and innumerable family members and countless friends.

Jay Gilsen: September 4, 1940 - March 13, 2009

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Bangkok, Thailand
Sunday Morning
March 15, 2009

Dear Friends,

I have some very sad news to report.

After several battles, my friend Jay Gilsen passed away in New York on Friday, March 13. Jay is one of my oldest and dearest friends.

Jay was my Anderson Avenue, Highbridge, Bronx, New York neighborhood buddy and my classmate from Kindergarten through Taft High School. As regular "cut -ups," we often met at "the Principal's bench" at PS 73.

 

Otto S. Polatschek: February 24, 1916 - July 4, 2007

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Nang Rong

Buriram

Thailand
July 5, 2007
My Dear Family and My Dear Friends,

My father, Otto S. Polatschek, passed away peacefully at 8:00 o’clock in the morning on July 4.  He was 91.  He lived in Pembroke Pines, Florida.

Trudy Dessey, his partner and companion for the last nineteen years, reported to me that Otto had a stroke two days before.  He was taken to the hospital.  Trudy visited him on Wednesday morning and he just fell asleep.

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